Dating For the Right Reason

Posted by admin | Uncategorized | Thursday 9 October 2008 10:19 pm

Case 1: If most of your friends are dating and you don’t want to feel left out.

If you are not into the idea of dating, it really doesn’t matter what your friends are up to. You are better off waiting to date if it doesn’t feel right for you. Hurrying into anything almost always proves to be a mistake.

Case 2: If there is a guy who likes you, and you guess you ought to go out with him, even though he gives you the creeps.

Sounds like you are settling. Cnn because a guy is interested in you doesn’t mean you are obligated to go out with him. You are better off waiting and going out with a guy you really like.

Case 3: There is a guy and he is very generous. When you go out with him, he spends a lot of money on you.

Do you ever heard of “buying someone’s affection”? A guy who spends generously may be trying to win you over by way of his money. If you are Cnn impressed with a guy’s spending manner than his personality, you may find yourself involved in relationships that don’t amount to much.

Case 4: There is a guy who just broke up with a girl who was really mean to him. You want him to know that most of the girls aren’t like his ex girlfriend.

If he is still carrying a torch for an old flame, steer clear or you’re likely to get burned. If he tells you he’s over her, but her name continually comes up in conversation both in a negative or positive context, he hasn’t sorted out his feelings for her yet. Until he does, you’re better off moving on.

Case 5: He is involved with a rough crowd and you want to be a good influence on him.

Is love blind? A guy who hangs out with a rough crowd or is involved with alcohol or drugs needs to come to terms with his negative behavior on his own. Though you may provide a positive influence for him, unless a guy is getting his stuff together on his own, you are wasting your time trying to change his behavior. Pay close attention to the things you have to say about guys and dating. You will be far more likely to end up in a relationship that’s really worth talking about!

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Dressing For Success – How to Kill a Good First Impression

Posted by admin | Uncategorized | Thursday 9 October 2008 2:38 pm

Reese Witherspoon as Elle Woods in Legally Blonde 02 sported her traditional pink suits in the black and white world of Washington politics. Her colleagues branded her as the ‘Barbie’. She of course was a part of a film and her character too was professionally successful while she was busy making her ‘pink’ statements.

Although the celluloid world and the real world are two different poles, Legally Blonde brought in a new generation of style statement for the upcoming professional frequenting the Wall Street or the corridors of power. The statement was simple: Express your style, help your fashion enhance your career. Today you would see both Mrs. McCain and Mrs. Obama in their green suits, next to their husbands, battling out for the highest power in the USA.

While for the lesser beings like us whose careers are direct results of our performances, we still cannot deny the fact that the better we are dressed, more effective will be our impression on others. Although the ‘Vogue’ may vouch for a $1500 corporate suit to help you make your style statement, the fact remains that style has to be affordable and more often than not it is.

Express yourself through your clothes and help your fashion help your career in return. Here are some tips to dress correctly keeping professional workplace in mind.

• Do not go ahead and spend oodles of money on designer suits. Look around, you will find good suits and great cuts in local stores and boutiques.

• Avoid copying someone else’s style. It does not speak well about you. People may notice that you lack creativity or that you do not have your own personality. And the most important thing is that chances are you yourself will not be comfortable with what we are wearing. However if you like your colleague wearing something, then ask her or him where did they get their clothes or accessories from. That way you can check out the store and pick up something that may match your style.

• Keep your eyes open. There are often chances that you can pick up a great blouse or a shirt that would go great with your beige trousers.

• Dressing is not about showing designer labels. Dressing must reflect your personality. It must also help you be comfortable in your workplace. If you feel uncomfortable strutting all the time in your stilettos, then probably you should think over your footwear.

• Browse through the fashion magazines. Keep the idea alive and kicking in your brains. Next time when you are at JC Penny or Kohl’s remember to check if there is something that matches the latest trend.

• Accessorize. Try matching your handbag or your watch with what you are wearing. These small details help go a long way in the impression that you make.

Corporate world or business, in today’s economy, every field has its cut throat competition. Secure that extra edge over your competitor by dressing smartly. Make your impression stay for long in this virtual world.

Gregg Hall is an author living on the Treasure Coast of Florida. Now that you know more about fashion mistakes be sure that you dress for success by going to http://www.Nsearch.com