Dating For the Right Reason
Case 1: If most of your friends are dating and you don’t want to feel left out.
If you are not into the idea of dating, it really doesn’t matter what your friends are up to. You are better off waiting to date if it doesn’t feel right for you. Hurrying into anything almost always proves to be a mistake.
Case 2: If there is a guy who likes you, and you guess you ought to go out with him, even though he gives you the creeps.
Sounds like you are settling. Cnn because a guy is interested in you doesn’t mean you are obligated to go out with him. You are better off waiting and going out with a guy you really like.
Case 3: There is a guy and he is very generous. When you go out with him, he spends a lot of money on you.
Do you ever heard of “buying someone’s affection”? A guy who spends generously may be trying to win you over by way of his money. If you are Cnn impressed with a guy’s spending manner than his personality, you may find yourself involved in relationships that don’t amount to much.
Case 4: There is a guy who just broke up with a girl who was really mean to him. You want him to know that most of the girls aren’t like his ex girlfriend.
If he is still carrying a torch for an old flame, steer clear or you’re likely to get burned. If he tells you he’s over her, but her name continually comes up in conversation both in a negative or positive context, he hasn’t sorted out his feelings for her yet. Until he does, you’re better off moving on.
Case 5: He is involved with a rough crowd and you want to be a good influence on him.
Is love blind? A guy who hangs out with a rough crowd or is involved with alcohol or drugs needs to come to terms with his negative behavior on his own. Though you may provide a positive influence for him, unless a guy is getting his stuff together on his own, you are wasting your time trying to change his behavior. Pay close attention to the things you have to say about guys and dating. You will be far more likely to end up in a relationship that’s really worth talking about!
Dating Tips and Advice
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